In the beginning

I feel like I am in an episode of Star Trek. That I am about to boldly go where no-one has gone before.... which is not quite true but I'm on a roll, and we know that nothing is ever new but each generation thinks it is new and their discovery.... I want to talk of sex and our sexual lives in an aceptable way, as a part of everyday life. Not for sexual gratification, though that is always great, but as part of an overall healthy and integrated outlook on life.

Too often we are prudish and scared to talk about anything sex related and so we have to bury those thoughts which can become fears and even dysfunctions.

I just want to try to look at sex differently and in a more healthy and balanced way. I want to rave about my orgasms. I want to share my concerns. I want to find out what is going on in the world and be able to comment. I want to know that I am normal.

Sex is erotic; funny; normal; desired; laborious; adventurous; satisfying; disappointing; wonderful; soul-enhancing; tedious; intimate; scary; juicy; releasing; relieving; squelchy; naughty; rude.......... all these things and more.

As long as it is agreeable to all parties involved I want to be able to talk about it, find out more, understand more and be happy!